You do not have to empty your mind. Mine has never received that memo either.
The tiny version
Notice one sound for a few moments, then return to your day.
When to try it
Overwhelmed, Anxious, Overstimulated.
Begin with one or two minutes. You can stop sooner.
What you need
Somewhere reasonably comfortable.
Optional: a guided recording you want to listen to.
What you need to hear
The aim is to notice where your attention has gone and gently bring it back. Wandering thoughts are part of the practice.
Try this
Sit or lie in a comfortable position. Keep your eyes open if that feels better.
Choose a simple focus. A sound in the room, the chair supporting you or your natural breathing.
Notice it for a few moments without trying to change anything.
When a thought appears, notice it and return to your chosen focus. Repeat as often as you need.
Afterwards
Check how the practice actually felt rather than deciding you should be calm.
If sitting still was unhelpful, try gentle movement or noticing your surroundings instead.
Journal prompt
Which kind of pause feels useful to me, rather than impressive in theory?
Keep it comfortable
Meditation is not helpful for everyone. If it makes you feel worse, stop and try a different activity. If distress keeps affecting daily life, seek support.
Choose a guided meditation
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Check how the practice actually felt rather than deciding you should be calm.
