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Something has crossed a line.
Common signs...
You may feel...
You have composed an excellent argument. Sending it right now may create a different problem.
What might be going on
Anger can tell you that something feels unfair, disrespectful or too much. The feeling matters. The useful part is working out exactly what happened and what you want to be different.
Try this now
Step away for a few minutes if you safely can. Move your body or get some space. Then finish this sentence: What I am angry about is... Keep it specific.
Reflection
Something has crossed a line.
What response would make this clearer rather than louder?
Are you calm enough to say what happened and what you want next? If not, take more space first.
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